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angussdundee
04-27-2009, 10:27 AM
"Do I have to attand the meetings of alcoholics anonymous or can I get by without it"?

How many times have we heard that one I wonder? I for one certainly thought like that when I first came around.
Virtually every alcoholic who is serious about quiting drinking will do better if they are part of a group.
AA groups offer the newcomer the chance to share whats been happening in their lives with others, giving them the chance to be helped, and then in turn to help others.
The ones that stand the most chance are the ones that participate fully in AA by getting a sponsor and using that sponsor by working the twelve steps right from the start.
It's a place to start getting honest with yourself and with others in an atmosphere of trust. Its a place where sobriety is contagious, just like the drinking was contagious in the bar rooms.

I need AA, Its where I get my sober medecine.... :D
Anguss.

samf
04-27-2009, 12:41 PM
I just love meetings, Anguss!! They have been a Godsend to me, from the start!

Think we still need to take the steps in order to get the most from the program, but meetings are a real gift, to me!

Love,

Sam

moby4ever
04-28-2009, 11:52 PM
I am still new, but I too can not get enough meetings.

mcmullany
04-29-2009, 03:19 PM
I am 28 years sober, a day at a time, and I still go to meetings. I came at first because I had to come (I had nowhere else to go) Then I came because I needed to come (they kept me off the drink) Then I came (and still do ) because I wanted to come. Meetings still enrich my life and I can also help newcomers. If no one had been going to meetings when I joined AA...where would I be today? Yvonne (Northern Ireland :)

angussdundee
04-29-2009, 05:40 PM
Glad to meet you McMullany. Your 28 years say's it all.... "Keep coming back, it works if you work it".... :D

God bless,

Anguss.

samf
04-29-2009, 11:25 PM
Welcome, Yvonne!! ;D

Big hug!

Samf

Pete G
06-01-2009, 06:08 PM
I was told there was only 2 meetings I had to go to. The ones I wanted & the ones I don't. And to pay particular attention to the latter. ;)

samf
06-02-2009, 10:51 AM
Me, too, Pete! :D

And I always feel better, after a meeting...especially when I didn't want to attend!

Sam

angussdundee
06-11-2009, 05:53 AM
I've heard it said that there are 'no musts in AA'. Just turn to chapter 5 of our Big Book - page 62 - my book is a new and revised third edition, earlier versions may vary)
It reads - "Above everything, we alcoholics MUST be rid of this selfishness. We MUST, or it kills us! God makes that possible".
There are two musts right there....

So we're agreed then? "We had to have God's help".... ;)

God helps us all,

Anguss.

samf
07-02-2009, 12:15 PM
Tinker, am sending you a hug!!!

Really appreciated what you said!!

Love,

Sam